HELLO, MY PET.

Lifestyle and Professional Dominatrix with poise and grace that will strip your mind and leave you craving for more. I will seduce you into doing things that you never thought you would do or too nervous to allow yourself to express. Without fail you will find yourself submitting effortlessly and completely under My control as I feed your kinky desires and fetish. I thrive on full interaction and chemistry as we scroll thru the depths of your mind. My strict disciplinary nature will redirect your behavior to allow you to properly serve me, as I take complete pleasure in your suffering.

I consider Myself a sensual sadist as well as fetishist and relish in working with novices to experienced players. My play can range from light tease & denial to heavy and sadistic. Think you can handle me as I own you and use you as My puppet? Now is the time to test your submissiveness and limits as I currently hold sessions in Los Angeles and Orange County. I Grew up in the DC/NOVA area from a Military/Government style family background. I have always had a strong sense and need for control/power ever since I can remember. Even in high school that need for power turned sexual as I would work the boys up, tease them and left them in the dust. Yes, I was that girl that received immense pleasure in controlling them and watching them grovel at My feet. Knowing I had that control was/is arousing to say the least.

You can find some of My Adult Femdom performances on such sites as Club Dom, Subby Hubby, Real Time Bondage, Men Are Slaves, Female Worship, Divine Bitches, Whipped Ass and Cum Eating Cuckolds.

You may recognize me as the DOMINA HELENA LOCKE from YouTube or perhaps from a Femdom porn video. I very much enjoy creative projects like filming femdom videos for my favorite playmates to salivate over. On my off time I enjoy roleplaying games (online roleplaying helped grow my interest in BDSM originally), baking (I’m celiac) and practicing my vocal skills (I am a professionally trained singer.)

I have been in the BDSM community for well over a decade and I have been a practicing Professional Dominatrix for just as long. I enjoy honing my craft and adding to my skillset, perhaps I can show you sometime.

I’ve been drawn to kink, Femdom and BDSM for as long as I can remember. When I was young I would innocently tie up my Barbies because I loved how rope felt in my hands. I learned knots from a young age after lots of camping trips and long fishing trips. My rope work slowly began getting more evolved as I got more comfortable and took on an artistic form. In additional to the barbie bondage I remember shoving my very first Ken into a pink frilly ball gown and begging my mom to sew him into it when his massive waist split the seams of the satin fabric. Although this was all innocent, my interests remained more or the same as I grew older. The same but of course, expanded.

I had a friend who I played with forced feminization tell me “You would be a great dominatrix” as he handed me and copy of The Stranger with Control Tower. This was how he introduced me to Mistress Matisse’s writings. This was the second time I had come across the word “dominatrix”.

I had heard the word “dominatrix” before. As my mother had referred to an outfit she made. Then later on jokingly, she told me I would rather be that than a nun. I wanted to punish people with rulers and I told her I wanted to be a teacher. Naturally, she told me that being a teacher in the early 2000’s did not allow for corporal punishment. Certainly not at my very liberal arts school.

As such, she told me I should consider being a nun. Quickly, with a laugh she said I definitely wasn’t cut out for that! She suggested maybe I should be a dominatrix instead. I think she was joking but then she gave me a couple of very decorative whips from France. So who knows how serious she actually was. Another one of my early influences as a budding Dominatrix was Xenia Onatopp. Watching her hold men captive with her powerful legs in Golden Eye was inspiring.

I got into kink officially almost by accident. I felt drawn to the exploration of out of the ordinary carnal activities. When I first began, as many do, by reading as much as I could get my hands on. Then of course experimentation began. Fortunately I started my exploration of BDSM and Femdom with some very patient submissives.

A little over 10 years ago I found my way into what I would know later as the BDSM SCENE. Then I only knew it as a club in the middle of the city where I could take some classes. Without these classes and connections through the community, I never would have been able to grow and hone my skills to what they are today.

I am forever grateful for everyone who has shared their knowledge with me. Having this wonderful community gave me the confidence to spread my wings and explore my interests and shortly after I started playing with my first real sub of my own.

I’ve had several I could call my own over the years and through their dedication and loyalty I’ve had the opportunity to grow, learn and hone my skills. I didn’t get start as a real time professional dominatrix until shortly there after where in I began exploring kink and myself even more and the fun really began for me. I explored many venues, some good and some not so much my taste. Due to my curiosity I carry a long list of qualifications.

I discovered a passion for rope early on in my exploration is famous for its shibari scene, as is Vancouver, BC. That passion was shortly followed by a love for sadism, reaction and connection and above all else, a strong desire for control. I think play is all about connection as its core and kink itself is a spectrum. When I describe it to people who don’t understand I often use the ice cream analogy; Kink is like stepping outside the realm of just enjoying vanilla with adding different things. You can have vanilla praline, vanilla with fudge, etc. Once you open your mind to kink you can try any flavor you can dream up. The limits are your imagination and what you are willing to do with yourself and others. D/s is much the same as I think that all interactions have some type of power structure, even if it’s just neutral. D/s is just awareness of that and playing with it.